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Talking with Kids About Sex | The Birds & The Bees | Age by Age Guide
Discussing sex and reproduction with children is an important part of parenting. Here’s an age-by-age guide to help navigate these conversations:
Toddlers (2-3 years):
- Use correct terms for body parts
- Teach the concept of privacy
- Respond to questions simply and honestly
Key points:
- Keep explanations brief and factual
- Use proper names for genit
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Toddlers (2-3 years):
- Use correct terms for body parts
- Teach the concept of privacy
- Respond to questions simply and honestly
Key points:
- Keep explanations brief and factual
- Use proper names for genitals
- Emphasize body autonomy (e.g., “your body belongs to you”)
Preschoolers (4-5 years):
- Explain where babies come from simply
- Discuss different types of families
- Introduce the concept of good touch vs. bad touch
Key points:
- Use age-appropriate books as aids
- Answer questions matter-of-factly
- Teach about personal boundaries
School-age (6-8 years):
- Discuss puberty basics
- Explain how babies are made in more detail
- Talk about different types of relationships
Key points:
- Prepare them for upcoming body changes
- Discuss online safety
- Encourage open communication
Tweens (9-12 years):
- Cover reproduction and consent
- Discuss different sexual orientations
- Talk about media representations of sex and relationships
Key points:
- Be prepared for more detailed questions
- Discuss peer pressure and decision-making
- Address internet pornography
Teens (13+ years):
- Address relationships, safety, and responsibility
- Discuss contraception and STIs
- Talk about healthy vs. unhealthy relationships
Key points:
- Provide resources for additional information
- Discuss the emotional aspects of sex and relationships
- Emphasize the importance of consent and respect
Remember, these conversations should be ongoing and evolve as your child grows. Always keep the lines of communication open and be prepared to revisit topics as needed.