The summer before your teen leaves for college is a crucial time for preparation, both practical and emotional. Here’s a to-do list to help navigate this transition:
- Financial preparations:
- Finalize financial aid arrangements
- Set up a bank account near campus if necessary
- Discuss budget and money management
- Health and insurance:
- Schedule final check-ups (medical, dental, vision)
- Ensure vaccinations are up-to-date
- Arrange for prescription transfers if needed
- Review health insurance coverage
- Living arrangements:
- Coordinate with roommates on shared items
- Shop for dorm essentials
- Discuss expectations for keeping in touch
- Academic preparation:
- Review course selections and requirements
- Attend orientation sessions
- Familiarize with campus resources and support services
- Life skills:
- Teach or refresh basic skills like laundry, simple cooking, and budgeting
- Discuss time management and study habits
- Technology:
- Ensure your teen has necessary devices and software
- Review cybersecurity and responsible online behavior
- Transportation:
- Plan move-in day logistics
- Discuss transportation options on and around campus
- Legal matters:
- Consider power of attorney and healthcare proxy documents
- Review insurance policies (auto, renters, etc.)
- Emotional preparation:
- Have open discussions about expectations, fears, and excitement
- Plan special family time or trips
- Packing and organizing:
- Start packing early, focusing on essentials
- Create a system for organizing important documents
Remember, this summer is also about spending quality time together and celebrating this milestone. Balance preparations with enjoyable activities and conversations to make lasting memories before this new chapter begins.
