While a mother’s instinct to protect her children is natural and important, overprotectiveness can hinder a child’s development and independence. Overprotective moms, often called “helicopter parents,” tend to hover over their children, constantly monitoring and intervening in their activities.

Signs of overprotective parenting include:

1. Excessive worry about minor risks
2. Solving all of the child’s problems
3. Restricting age-appropriate activities
4. Making decisions for the child
5. Constantly monitoring the child’s whereabouts and activities

While these behaviors stem from love and concern, they can have negative consequences:

1. Reduced independence and self-reliance
2. Decreased problem-solving skills
3. Increased anxiety and low self-esteem
4. Difficulty in social situations
5. Rebellion in teenage years

To strike a balance, moms can:

1. Encourage age-appropriate independence
2. Allow children to make mistakes and learn from them
3. Teach problem-solving skills instead of solving problems for them
4. Gradually increase freedom as children demonstrate responsibility
5. Address their own anxiety and fears

Remember, the goal of parenting is to raise capable, confident adults. Balancing protection with allowing children to experience life’s challenges is key to achieving this goal.